Honeycomb Kids is a parenting book for the 21st Century. Including more than 300 practical ideas and activities, it comes with two priceless benefits: not only does it help you prepare your children for an uncertain tomorrow, it also helps you shift to a better family life for today. Reading this book will empower your family to make the most of a world increasingly defined by over-population, rising prices, poor health, fast depleting natural resources and an unstable political, social, environmental and financial landscape. Feeling daunted by these realities? Don't be! This book shows you how to nurture the timeless values and resilience your children will need to become contributors, not just consumers.Intriguing, right? I know!! Demonstrating her dedication to her family, Campbell and her husband abandoned the fast paced city lifestyle and moved to a farm in the country (oh how I'd love to do that....I live in a rural area, but not a great community! I wish we could move to a farm!). The book opens with a comprehensive overview of challenges facing our children and world today; she goes on to share what they might have to look forward to if changes don't happen. I really liked that with each specific challenge presented, facts and studies were included to back the information up. It is helpful to have the resource material to learn more about the topics, to both educate ourselves and our kids. An interesting concept Campbell presented was the concept of the hive. As noted at the beginning of Part Two:
"A successful beehive is a place of cooperation, industriousness, shared decision-making, planning, determination to survive together, reverence for nature, yummy stuff, and a little bit of magic! Kind of like the ideal human family!"Exactly! I loved it when I read it - I smiled out loud. Another thing that resonated with me was her discussion of the problem with "helicopter parenting", and not allowing our children the space (or providing them with the tools) to deal with and overcome adversity. It is possible to be too encouraging (kids need realism too - maybe they really CAN'T sing, or they DID play poorly in a soccer game). There's nothing wrong with giving kids some responsibility to young kids - my six year old can absolutely handle making her pb&j for her lunch at school each day; doing so provides her with a sense of pride and accomplishment (and she knows how to forage in the pantry!). It does children a disservice when parents try to be superheroes, and handle every minute detail of their little lives. Just like kids need to get dirty, and play outside, they need to be taught how to handle real-life issues, stresses, and problems. (No, I'm not saying you should boot them out in the street. But isn't it better for you to be the person that teaches them how to handle adversity, rather than the inevitable day come when they have to fend for themselves, and don't know how? Like the author, I'd much prefer my children learn from me, in a setting I can have some input towards.)
At the close of each chapter, Campbell provides "Thought Launchers and Conversation Starters". I enjoyed these sections immensely. I will admit, often the suggestions were not at all practical for the area I live in (no way would a "time bank" work in my community), but by and large they at least contained a nugget of something we could adapt and use for our family. And since reading the book, I find myself stopping to think about the way I'm preparing to phrase a question, so that my daughter will benefit the most from the ensuing discussion (my two year old son only participates if we are talking about trains, or Batman!).
I certainly didn't mean for this review to be so opinionated, or so wordy. Thanks for sticking with me! Here's what you should take away from what I'm saying about this book: it's definitely a keeper. It's an easy read, full of thought-provoking discussions and ideas on raising well-rounded kids. The author is someone I wish I was friends with, and I'm so grateful she shared her life experiences in this book!
Paperback: 264 pages
Publisher: Cape Able (April 6, 2012)
Author Bio: Anna M. Campbell
*I received a complimentary copy of this book to review. All opinions are my own; no other compensation was given. This post was also published on the From Left to Write blog.